How Psychology Fixed My Faith

When I went to school to become a Christian counselor I had no idea that there were those who were opposed to Christians learning how to become helpers through the lens of psychology. I remember one of my professors asking the class how we would respond to the challenges voiced by others. I was stunned. “Why wouldn’t we want to learn from any field of knowledge in this world, if it offered a real chance to help hurting people?”

His challenge felt like someone questioning me as to why I wouldn’t accept a Polio vaccine made by a scientist. It just didn’t make sense to me. If we can’t use information that doesn’t come strictly from the Bible, none of us could exist. We couldn’t bake bread because the recipe doesn’t come from the Bible. We couldn’t do mathematic equations because the Word doesn’t show us how. I thought this was craziness and I truly was shocked that I even had to consider this question.

But my professor was right: Within a week’s time, I noticed certain Christian friends asking me why I would study psychology. Their tone and choice of words let me know that they were displeased.

I had gone into the field of Counseling in order to help other people. I really didn’t think I had many issues to work out. The blessing was that I literally unraveled emotionally while in school. I had always been a nervous and emotional person, but I thought that was just how I was made. As I learned family dynamics and examined psychological issues, I began to see the wounds I had incurred while growing up. Now I had no choice, I had to work through through these issues in my own counseling process. I could go into great detail here, and I hope to at a later date, but suffice it to say by the time I left the program I was no longer the depressed, anxious or insecure person I had been three years prior.

If you google “Psychology and Christianity” you will encounter a maelstrom of web sites devoted to this issue. Some support the combination of Christianity and psychology, but many are vehemently opposed. Thirteen years after I made a personal commitment to Christ, I was stuck in shame and low self-esteem. Being a Christian that long, and understanding God’s grace but not being able to apply it to your life, causes you to feel more shame.

But after I examined some things with the help of a counselor, I forgave myself and understood better how situations had impacted me. As St. Augustine said, “all Truth is God’s Truth” — note the capital T — but we can still use small “t” truths to help us. No field of study has the absolute truth, but we as humans, making our way through a world which is filled with suffering,  need to rely on resources in addition to the Bible.

I feel that psychology, and the help of some very compassionate Christian people, healed me: My faith is stronger than ever.  I hurt for Christians who have emotional wounds, and or medical issues, which could be helped by what psychology (and medicine) has to offer. They stay stuck in a silent hell because they have been told psychology comes from the devil.

What do you think?

*This post was originally posted 12/09/07

3 thoughts on “How Psychology Fixed My Faith

  1. Lucille,
    I enjoyed reading this post today. Between counseling and going to school much healing has come into my life. For years I prayed and believed that I would get over my issues from the past, unfortunately that only led to more problems that led to a very toxic church. I read Why I stayed by Gayle Haggard which gave me some great understanding. During their counseling the psychologist asked Ted about how he dealt with some of his issues. Ted shared that he had prayed and fasted for over 20 years. The psychologist responded if it had been a spiritual issue, wouldn’t have been dealt with? That the turning point for them, which opened my eyes to my own issues. Since being in counseling I have experienced some pretty low lows, but a greater sense of freedom than ever before. I am not done, but feel like we have laid all the issues out on the table.
    Today I have many friends asking me what type of counseling I received and how it works. There are many people out there who are looking for healing. Getting this message out is important.

  2. My post this week was How Writing Fiction Made Me Believe in God. Kind of a fun coincidence? I enjoyed this post and agree with you. I love the bread example. What about chocolate?!?! Diet Coke?!?!?! :) ))

  3. Wow, Lucille, I’m just as shocked as you were. Why in the world would Christians not use the latest advances in physical and mental health to help people? What an eye-opener. Thanks so much for sharing this.

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